Friday, July 17, 2009

To live together forever

I always try to explane my love for my husband, but sometimes words is just not enough!! I will try to explane for everyone else why I love my husband like I do, and why I couldn't dream for more!! :P


I love my husband with all my heart. Every day he shows me a new side, and I love ever part of him. We have been together for 13 months, married for 2, and we have never had a fight. How is that possible??!! Whenever I get upset or sad, he can always talk to me, and actually make me happy again in no time. We just can't argue, or get any closer than just being upset and need to talk to each other, and thats just how I want it to be. We might not have to agree on everything, but mine and Nicks way of communicate with eachother is uniq, I haven't seen or heard of anyone like that. Alot of relationships have a rough start, or at any time had a fight over something, with me and my husband, everything was so natural from the beginning, how we became a couple, never had a fight, its almost too good to be true. I have never dreamt of having a marriage like this, and I don't have to be afraid of being my self. Im a girl with emotions, ups and downs, I can lock my self in a shell, and minutes after Nick helps me back out, builds me up, cheers me up. And I don't have to be upset anymore. Everytime Nick is upset or sad, stressed out or whatever, I play that same role, helping him calm down, cheering, building him up again, and so on!! What more can a girl wish for?? And I know that when or if that day comes that we have a fight, our communication will always help us, we know that we can talk about everything, he is my best friend, im his best friend, and we can share everything with each other, both good and bad.

I think one of mine and Nicks recipes for a happy eternal marriage must be that we entered this marriage with the knowlegde that nothing was going to be easy, we are not perfect and we are failing every day, and the reason we are together is to co-oporate, to learn and to help each other. To build up a celestial family, and I don't have to play perfect, I don't have to never be upset or sad, cause whatever i do, Nick will never leave my side, either will I leave his side!!
So I can get upset, I can get mad, and when that happens, me and Nick just talkes about it and everything is fine again.

Another thing we do that helps is:
We talk together about how much we love each other every day! And WE never get sick of hearing those three words I LOVE YOU :) When Nick goes to work, five minutes later I get a text message, and it sais: I love you,babe.. and it always warms my heart, and it always makes me feel special!!

All that we do testifies that we are ment to be together, and that God really has a plan for us being together, and to have that comforting spirit with us all the time, makes it really easy to relaxe. And to focus on me and him, not everything else that doesn't have eternal value!!


I always look forwad till tomorrow; a new day with my eternal companion, and i look back to yesterday with a smile on my face, remembering all the fun stuff me and my husband did, looking back on all the memories we have created together, and smile :)


I really really love my husband with all my heart and all my soul. I love the way we are and the way we always will be :) We match perfectly and what more can a girl wish for? I can't wait for our family to grow big, to share our big love with our children. And everyday is a gift from God, and im so grateful that Nick is the one I can celebrate with everyday:)

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

The Honeymoon

Our honeymoon was amazing. We went to Orlando, Florida. Amazing weather, sunny and about 90-94 degrees everyday, we only got some rain the last two days. next day
We went to Disneyworld one day, and picked the hollywood studios park with the Tower of terror and the Rock'n Rollercoaster. We had so much fun that day, spent like 10 hours in the park, watching almost every show and took the tower of terror three times, and the rock'n rollercoaster twice :) Then we headed out to the beach one day. We drove over to tampa bay and to one of the beaches over there. Chrystal water, i think that was the name of the beach actually. We got a huge sunburn both of us, though we had tons of sunscreen on, but oh well. Later on it turned out that the only that remained tan, was Nick. Wenche got her white lovely color back after we both had been shedding for some time :)
The next day we went to sea world. Wenche loved it. Nick thought it was ok :) The animals were amazing, we watched the shamu show, a show with alot of killer whales, and got a little wet from Shamu the HUGE killerwhale. He had a good time splashing water on the ones that were stupid enough to seattle down in the SOAK AREA :) Oh well. It was fun after all..
We also watched the dolphin show, and a show where we saw a bunch of dogs, cats, rats, birds, pigs and a skunk perform. It was so fun to watch them, it takes alot to train a cat, but the cats were amazing, and Wenche was pretty happy when she was able to spot a Chinese Crested among all the animals :D The chinese crested is her favorit dog breed :)
All the animals that performed were rescued animals, so the trainers have been doing alot of good work with these animals :)

Then it was all about busch gardens, after all that we have heard about it, we had some pretty high expectations about that park, and wenche was rather dissapointed. Nick liked it, he loved the rides, but Wenche thought the whole park was rather overrated. It was fun and everything, but it was not THAT good, if you know what i mean :)
But we had a really good time, being in Orlando just the two of us, together all the time was just brilliant. We had alot of fun, got to know each other better, eat alot of food, gained some weight :D But who cares:)
We also took alot of pictures. Here is a few of them :)